Imagine a world in which everyone speaks the same language – a world in which every person has the same accent, the same tone and the same vocabulary. Sounds… incredibly boring, right?

Getting rid of an accent is a common goal for language learners around the world. But as a language teacher and a traveler, I’ve come to love and value accents.

Accents are a part of us, they help tell our story. And I hope that you never fully lose yours.

My story

Although I live in South America now, I grew up in the northeast of the United States. Living close to the border with Quebec, Canada, half of our radio channels featured native French speakers.

Many of the residents of my hometown originally came from other countries, and it was very normal to head to the supermarket and hear more than one accent, or even more than one language, while buying my groceries.

In fact, I heard so many different accents that I didn’t think about it very much. Those people, to me, weren’t foreign-language-speakers. They were just people.

When my family hosted an Italian girl in our home for a summer, I was fascinated with her accent. I thought she had the most beautiful, melodic way of speaking that I had ever heard – and I spent an entire summer trying to imitate her and talk like she did. 

When I first moved to South America, I didn’t speak very much Spanish. Not only was the vocab and grammar difficult for me, but my tongue and my mouth had a hard time making the sounds that everyone around me made with ease.

I became acutely embarrassed by my accent.

I felt like I had a big arrow over my head saying “North American girl” every time I opened my mouth to speak. 

I spent hours practicing the hard-to-say words and sounds that helped others identify me as a foreigner. I avoided speaking out loud in public as much as possible. I didn’t want people to hear my “bad” Spanish. And as a result, I didn’t learn Spanish very fast. 

One day a friend from Chile sat me down. He asked me what I thought about his accent when he spoke in English. “Do I sound silly?” He asked me. “Are you embarrassed for me? Do you have a hard time understanding me?” 

I was shocked that he would even think that. “Of course not!” I told him. “I love your accent! It’s musical, and it tells a story about where you’re from. In fact, I usually don’t even think about your accent. I think about how amazing it is that you speak two languages so well, when learning a second language is so hard for me.”

He simply smiled at me, “Well, that’s how I feel about your accent. So stop worrying about it and accept it as part of you.” 

I never apologise for my accent anymore.

Sometimes I apologise for using the wrong word, or for not explaining myself well. Of course, I want people to understand me. But I’ve grown very proud of my accent.

I worked incredibly hard to be able to speak two languages. I’ll never sound exactly like a native Chilean – but I’m not a native Chilean! I’m a North American who moved to a foreign country and spent years of hard work trying to learn another language.

My accent tells my story. And I’m proud of the story it tells. 

What’s your ‘why’?

If one of your main goals in English is to get rid of your accent, I challenge you to think for a moment about why you want to change it. 

If you want to change your accent because people have a hard time understanding you in English, that’s a fair point.

We all want to be understood, and if your accent is keeping you from expressing yourself clearly, then that’s something to work on. 

But if you want to change your accent for other reasons, maybe you should reconsider those reasons. Think about how you feel when you meet someone speaking your native language with an accent.

We are often our own worst-critics! But worrying about something that most people probably don’t even care about is a waste of time. 

Accents do occasionally promote stereotypes or negative attitudes. But if somebody treats you badly because of an accent, then they’re probably not the type of person you want to be around anyway. And they’ve definitely never gone through the struggles and challenges of learning a second language, so you already have something amazing that they don’t have!

Most languages have regional dialects and accents as well. Put 10 native English-speakers from different parts of the world in a room together, and I guarantee they won’t sound the same.

Think about it this way; everyone has an accent, even in their native language! I love meeting different Spanish-speakers and trying to figure out which country they’re from by their accent. I think it’s fascinating how one language can change so much across different geographical locations.

Accents tell our story

Our accents tell a story about where we are from, what part of the world we’ve lived in, and the different cultures that create our history. 

One of my favorite parts of The Ladies’ Project (although, to be honest, I have many favorite parts), are all of the different accents that I hear on a daily basis.

Not only is it beautiful to hear so many different pronunciations and dialects sharing together in one place, but it’s also extremely helpful for improving listening skills!

Did you know that only 25% of the world’s population of English-speakers are native? That means that 3 out of 4 people that you speak in English with will have a non-native accent!

Coming in contact with as many different accents as possible is a great way to train your ear, hone your listening skills, and improve your communication in general! 

Accents are beautiful. They are real. They tell a story. They are a part of our identity. And they represent something incredible – the fact that you speak more than one language!

Accents shouldn’t be something to be ashamed of, but they should be celebrated. Be proud of your accent, it’s part of you. 

What’s your opinion? Does your accent bother you? Are there some accents you’ve heard that you appreciate?

* Photo by Maria Tyutina from Pexels

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  1. Alda Eliane Costa Caiado

    You are absolutely right about this topic. Although we try to speak as natives, we will always be identified as foreigners by expressing our own personality when we speak.
    I had an american teacher who told me that my Brazilian accent was beautiful and that she loved talking to different people from different places because of the accents.

  2. Ainshah Noor

    Hi, there! I completely agree with you. I like to stay with my accent because it’s quite understandable though I’m always trying to figure out where I need to improve that do not bother anyone to understand because sometimes different accents might be difficult to understand but it’s not an awkward thing.❣